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Tuesday 1 October 2024

Raising Future Champions - Helping Your Child Find their Passion

**Collaborative Post**

Parenting in the fast lane of the digital age does feel a bit like trying to solve a Rubik's cube blindfolded. There is no manual or right/wrong way its all about navigating the path in our own way, the best we can. We're all trying to teach our kids the long game in a world obsessed with immediate results. Where kids are used to having things to hand when they need them, deliveries next day and food to the door in minutes it can be a hard task!

Whether this be intentional or not is beside the point; if you've ever wondered how to plant the seeds of patience and perseverance in your little ones, stick around. By turning everyday challenges into small victories with some pretty creative strategies. Are you ready to become the patience guru for your child and help them learn the value or patience?

The Power of Storytelling


Sitting comfortably on a lazy Sunday afternoon, cuddled up with your kids and a good book, is how we should end the week. But not just any book—knights, explorers, and inventors at your command. As you flip the pages, talk with them about how such a character beat the dragons or the dark storming seas and never gave up. "What are you going to do if you're in their shoes?" Use rhetorical questions and make them ponder. It's like sneaking veggies into a pasta sauce—educational but tasty as all get out.


Encouraging them to step out of everyday life and emerge themselves in a world that moves a little slower, their imagination!


Plant a "Challenge Accepted" Mentality


Look, kids watch our every move-end. Next time you are wrestling with a jammed drawer or a tough recipe, narrate your saga. Let them hear you say, "This is tough, but I got this!" Show them that taking on challenges is just a part of daily life. If they see you lose your patience after a few minutes or give up, what is that teaching them You could even ask them to help you problem solve, showing them that asking for help is ok too.


Play Your Way into Advancement


How about an introduction of some old-school flair with a game of chess? It's that sort of "think before you move" kind of deal, teaching kids to be tactical and cool, or else one lousy move might cost you your queen. Games like these turn "Wait your turn" from being a nag into a goal. Plus, who doesn't love a little friendly competition on game night?


Play Your Way into Advancement


How about an introduction of some old-school flair with a game of chess? It's that sort of "think before you move" kind of deal, teaching kids to be tactical and cool, or else one lousy move might cost you your queen. Games like these turn "Wait your turn" from being a nag into a goal. Plus, who doesn't love a little friendly competition on game night?


Set Realistic Goals and Celebrate Small Wins


Has there ever been a moment when a child's face actually lit up with pure joy, simply when they knew they nailed that bike ride without training wheels? Help them set little goals: "Build the mega Lego castle" or simply "Finish a chapter book." And when they do, BIG DEAL, DANCE PARTY! It's about celebrating the journey, step by step, showing them that perseverance pays off in really fun ways.


I think this is something we should still do as adults too personally. We put far to much pressure and emphasis on these huge goals and in doing so we miss the chance to celebrate all the little goals we achieve on the way!


Devise a Patience-Perseverance Reward System


Think of rewards that mean something. The point is to move them in the opposite direction of instant gratification. If they have been patient with their younger sibling all week, perhaps a special movie night is in order. Make the rewards about connecting, not just collecting stuff or some throw away reward like sweets that they could get any time. Make the reward something worth waiting for (and no it doesn't have to cost lots either, most of the time kids value our time over money).


Foster an Environment of Emotional Intelligence


This is big: help your kids put names to their feelings. Is it frustration? Disappointment? Naming it can tame it. When either antsy or ready to give up, they teach them the deep breath or take five. It's a kind of emotional judo—using their feelings to help them get in control and push through. Let them see you walk about your feelings, having a rough day? It's ok to let them know you are feeling sad or that you need some time alone to relax. Modeling this behaviour will emphasise to them that its ok to talk about their feelings and ask for a hug or even alone time if they need it.


Limit Instant Gratification


Okay, be honest, how often do we all fall for the charm of instant everything? Try dialling it back. For instance, perhaps Wednesday is no Wi-Fi Wednesday, and new toys come out only after old ones get donated. It is teaching them that waiting isn't actually going to be the end of the world; in truth, it actually can make the eventual 'yes' a little sweeter.


What's Underestimated Yet Powerful: Routine


Routine does sound a little boring, but it's actually an undercover power. Bedtime stories, weekly puzzle time, or family jogs—they teach kids to do the big jobs bit by bit. They really learn that not everything is a sprint; some things are marathons, and that is just fine. It is a matter of pacing themselves, really.


Be the Rock They Need


And through it all, be their rock. Heed them, believe in them, and step back sometimes. Watching them struggle is harder for you than it is for them. Always keep in mind that struggle makes them grow it helps them learn new strategies so that the next time it happens, they will be more prepared. Your belief in their capability to get through hard times is among the best gifts you give them each day.


Parenting through stormy seas requires a great deal of patience. Patience and perseverance are not only to be taught to the kids themselves, but they are to be genuinely expressed by the parents, too. As you help your little ones get through life's ups and downs, remember that every challenge is an opportunity to teach these priceless life skills.


xXx


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