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Sooner or later, every family hits a big milestone. It could be moving house, preparing for a new baby, changing jobs, or expanding your household. And these events inevitably require you to make some big purchases. If you think that time may be coming for you soon, it may be the time to make some smart buying choices! However, the emotional and stressful side of these shifts makes it easy to get swept up in the urgency of it all.
To take control of costs during these big family moments, here are some simple, realistic ways to plan ahead so that large expenses feel manageable rather than overwhelming.
Get a Clear Picture of Your Finances with a Budget
First, you need to be clear on what you can comfortably afford. Start by mapping out your monthly income and fixed costs, these can include rent or mortgage, childcare, utilities, council tax, and travel. Then add in your variable spending, i.e., food, days out, clothing, etc., and add a savings target. When doing this its really important to be realistic, there is no point saying you could do your food shop for £50 when you know realistically you spend £100 because you will fall short every month.
All you need is a simple spreadsheet, but a budget app can help you more accurately track the ebb and flow of money over a few weeks to see what’s realistic. You often find apps that multiple people can sign up to as well, so you all have access and can see what's coming and going so everyone is on the same page. Now that you have this snapshot, you can work out the ‘safe zone’ for big purchases, so you don’t spend more than intended. Remember to schedule regular check-ins to stay on top of evolving expenses.
Buy Smart: Sort Essentials from ‘Nice-to-Haves’
Before spending money on a big item, ask yourself ‘Is this essential right now?’ A reliable fridge, a safer family car, or a properly sized cot with essential safety features are all definitely urgent. But upgrading your TV or buying designer nursery furniture likely isn’t. Timing is critical; seasonal sales, outlet stores, Facebook Marketplace, and local reuse groups can cut hundreds of pounds off the cost of items. And if you need a family vehicle, looking into the wide selection of used cars available can make a big difference to your budget. Don’t think of second-hand as a ‘compromise’ but as a financially sustainable option.
Hidden Expenses: Consider the Ongoing Costs of Big Buys
Look beyond the price tag of a big purchase. If you dig deeper, you might find that it comes with long-term expenses, some examples can include, fuel, electric charging costs for cars, insurance, maintenance, and potential repairs. If an item is cheaper upfront, it can end up costing more over five years, so shift your mindset to long-term value rather than the immediate savings.
Money to Spare: Have a Buffer for Life’s Surprises
No matter how carefully you plan your budget, unexpected costs are a fact of life. The wheel of a pram suddenly breaks, nursery fees rise, or your mechanic informs you that the car needs a service earlier than expected. Set aside a small amount every month to create a contingency fund so you have breathing room for emergencies. It’s also a good idea to reassess your budget after a big purchase so you can rebalance before things drift.
Navigate Major Family Expenses with Confidence
Being responsible with big spends doesn’t mean cutting all the fun out of life when major family milestones roll around. You just need to understand your needs, create a clear budget, and take a calm approach to purchasing big items. With this mindset, navigating the upcoming family celebration or life change will be much easier.

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